Our environment is a reflection of us
In a world that we live in, many have seen hard times. Hard times through various hardships. Financial Hardship, Emotional Hardship and even Physical Hardship. But the dept of these is hardship with ourselves. We focus on so many external things, that we fail to realize that everything starts with us. Our environment is a reflection of us. So if we are broken, if we are facing internal- hardship, then everything around us will reflect that. This is what is commonly termed as “So within, So without” As your inner world operates or function, so does it reflect in your outer world.
Our environment through brokenness
In an environment where there is an abundant of resources and food. For example, my favorite analogy; If you plant one avocado seed, it will turn into a fruit bearing tree and bear multiple fruits multiple times a year. This is abundance in its purest form. Yet, we live in lack of food in certain areas of the world because of a greed mentality. If we show each other this abundant way of life, and if we encourage every back yard to have at least one fruit-bearing tree. We would have ample of organic fruits and vegetables to go around with.
The same with relationships, we have a high divorce rate; According to the Statistics of the Netherlands, In 2022, 23,603 marriages ended in divorce. In addition to that, break-ups happen everyday. According to a OnePoll survey, the average American adult experiences 3 major breakups in their relationships.And we wonder why our environment experience such a loss when it comes to relationships? Are we not connecting properly? Are we connecting for the wrong reasons and then realizing that the other partner is not a good match? Or is it because we ourselves are broken individuals trying to have a wholesome relationship, when in fact, majority of us came from a broken home and without healing and realization, carry on the same brokenness into our relationships. Our environment is a reflection of us on an individual level.
Our environment through systematic changes
As a society that has been through many systematic changes and occurrences over many lifetimes, we are a result of what has caused many wounds and fears. Systematic occurrences such as the separation caused by the holocaust i.e.racism, Racism is when one ethnic group purposely excludes and collectively dominate another ethnic group. As a human society, this has cause major separation amongst ourselves and a feeling of inferiority and low self worth by the victim of the neglected ethnic group. And this is brokenness on a large scale.
Another scenario is the losses caused by the world war and other wars that take place up to and until this present day as I type this, the war between Ukraine and Russia is happening. , War is a conflict between different countries or different groups within a country. This conflict can unearth various emotional ties such as hate for another human being, Wars can also desensitize one from caring about another, especially if their order is to kill the persons/soldiers of the other country that they are at war with. All of this hate, desensitize care feelings of loss are brokenness on a large scale that can affect generations.
Another generational trauma / hurt, is the the hurt and pain from slavery. African Americans and the Caribbean people are descendants of Africans that was forced to come to the west to work on plantations and mining grounds. This separation from their mother land, their cultures, their language all creates brokenness within the psyche. Colonialism has create a systematic change for the generations to follow leaving some distortion among African-American and Caribbean people, as well as the indigenous group.
the injustice in the economic system and it;s classes formed through capitalism has many people living fin financial hardship and brokenness,
– Love Deidrae
Lastly the injustice in the economic system and it;s classes formed through capitalism has many people living fin financial hardship and brokenness, Without a psychological turn around, some of these poverty within the family is passed down causing all kinds of crimes and various acts, because these people group are stuck in survival mode. Survival mode is also a result of the brokenness in individuals caused by the society in which we live in,.
Individual brokenness
As an individual, we also go through traumas and experience brokenness in our individual lifetime, that we need to face and heal. Such traumas like sexual trauma are behavior exposures that cause a person to experience a great deal of stress. This exposure happens without their consent or when consent is not given freely. This would cause one to be deprived of their innocence and this is brokenness on an individual level. One may not be able to be vulnerable again or for a long time, until that is healed.
As mentioned previously, childhood brokenness can be experienced if you came from a broken home, Childhood brokenness leaves you abandoned from your inner -child. Also a part of your innocence and juvenile and adventurous/ explorative side to the human nature.
So as a behavioral analyst, a spiritual seer and observer, I analyze one’s nature by their external environment. And based on the environment and happenings of this world, there is a systematic hardship that is derived from a deficiency that rocks to the very core of our human nature, All of these traumas and brokenness takes us away from our true nature – our soul’s essence. and that is love
To truly love, one has to face their fears and heal their wounds.. Each of us has a deficiency embedded in our DNA, wounds and fears, that needs facing.
Healing back to Love
If we return to our true nature and operate from whole, we give light to the universe. We’ll give light to the darkness. We’ll bring hope to earth.
– Love Deidrae
IF we heal collectively, face our fears individually, we’ll see the side of ourselves which we have never seen before the side that comes from the eternal source, The side in which our divine essence was created. Love. The kind of love that is universal and unconditional. Not like what we have seen and experienced here on earth. If we return to our true nature and operate from whole, we give light to the universe. We’ll give light to the darkness. We’ll bring hope to earth.
I’m delighted, that in this age of Aquarius, many are waking up and realizing these hurt, pain, traumas and fears they have gone through both on a systematic level and an individual level. This is the beginning of the great return to love. To first heal our childhood wounds, to then healing any sexual trauma, to then learning who we are on each individual level as well as a collective level, to then loving ourselves authentically and then loving others in their authenticity. Only after these individual steps then we can see a collective and global change to return to the essence in which we was created and to be the light of Source.
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